What’s Important: Giving Back
I didn’t become a medical missionary after I became a physician, but I went through the stages of maturation that all physicians do. The first stage I call the “thrill of victory,” and it persists all through our training as we dream of what great things we’ll do. It is this thrill that drives us through the long years of study, and it is the thrill of healing others that fuels our pride in having unique talents. I feel fortunate because this thrilling stage has lasted my entire career, and I particularly feel it when a grateful patient brings me cookies.
But once I was in practice, I experienced the second critical stage, the “agony of defeat.” Complications occurred that I never expected. Some were catastrophic for patients, and I didn’t know if I could bear the heartache. But this is the stage that defined my career. Was I going to play not to lose, or accept the risk of failure and play to win? I chose to play to win, and it has made all the difference. I don’t know if my strength to accept failure came from sports, from watching the strength of my role models (Drs. Paul Harvey and Chit Ranawat), or from my family (my parents and wife Marilyn, who always believed in me). I just know that the decision to play to win is the key to loving medicine and not burning out.
The third maturation stage is the knowledge that “there is a God, but it is not me.” I think this progresses naturally from the lessons of the second stage. The consequences of failure breed humility. When a surgery didn’t go well, how did those patients have such great results? From where did the talent come that enabled me to become an orthopaedic surgeon? God’s intervention also was evident when patients who had a catastrophic result forgave me.
This process of maturation from being a naive dreamer to a seasoned physician—still with dreams—brought me to the fourth stage. I realized that “giving back was better than taking.” For me, the quintessential opportunity to give back to medicine, to express gratitude for my parents’ lessons, for my wife’s belief in me, and to my God, was Operation Walk. Operation Walk is a not-for-profit volunteer medical services organization that provides free surgical treatment for patients with arthritis or other debilitating bone and joint conditions in developing countries (and occasionally in the U.S.). For others, giving back might be encouraging a medical student or resident to be a better doctor, being a medical role model in the community, or just teaching those around you to give back and live by the Golden Rule.
I quickly learned that most doctors have a desire to give back—to help others in need. And I saw everyone who participated with Operation Walk receive more than they gave.